Setting boundaries makes me feel like a jerk

Even though I know it’s good for me and my mental health, setting boundaries makes me feel like such a jerk.

For example, earlier this week I saw that someone I’m not close with on Instagram sent me a minute long voice memo after trying to call me. It’s only a minute, but I barely want to listen to voice memos from my close loved ones, so I didn’t listen to it. (And I definitely don’t want to take random unplanned calls on Instagram.)

The next day, they DM’d me saying they hoped they didn’t offend me (with the content of the memo?). I guess they were wondering why I never responded. I don’t know what they were talking about since I didn’t listen to it, and basically said that -“you didn’t offend me, I didn’t listen to it.” Then I told them I’m limiting my time on social media and I don’t listen to voice memos or watch reels that (rando) people send me (I watch them if they are reels from a close friend or my snis).

And I felt like such a jerk.*

But I also felt relief in putting that out there. That’s the first time I’ve said a boundary out loud. Most of them are just boundaries I’ve created for myself and haven’t told the other party about, for example:

  • keeping certain relationships on a superficial level because the other person doesn’t provide the support/response I need
  • not spending time with toxic people
  • limiting time with draining people
  • not going to an event because someone else thinks I should

I didn’t even realize those were boundaries until I started therapy this year. I was telling my therapist about the first item, and how I feel bad not sharing things with someone because of their toxic positivity and not getting what I need out of sharing them. I felt like a jerk for withholding. And my therapist said “you aren’t a jerk; you’re setting a boundary.”

Hmm. I never thought about it that way! It’s true. I still hate it – I want to be 100% genuinely myself all the time and hate when I can’t be (and that boundary makes me feel that way) – but it’s true.

*And I acknowledge that I was way more available to people (and responsive) in the past than I am now, so that’s confusing for them

Random Thoughts Thursday 426

  • I forgot to mention we put new pins in our world map the day we came home from Maine! We added Portland, Augusta, Bar Harbor, and Concord. The only northeastern US pins we had in before were NYC and DC!

  • Speaking of pins, I always buy the year’s RAGBRAI pin for me and my mom but when we finished this year we were too far from the merch tent so I decided to order it online after (I had done that another year). Long story long, they took three months to put their merch online and when they did, there were no pins. Womp womp.
  • I got a Halloween mani with Lorena on Saturday! I’ll get pumpkins next week.

  • I have been creating magnets and leaving them in my Shitterfly cart for two months while I waited for them to have their $1 magnet deal and it showed up Tuesday. Look at those “savings!” Whoa!

  • When I first went back to the office I tried to choose a day with as few meetings as possible so I wouldn’t be holed up in a conference room all day while I was there and could socialize with folks. Now I prefer to have a day with more meetings so the day goes by faster. I’m grateful we have more flexibility with picking our face day now and I can move it around!
  • After I booked my trip to LA next month I found out I had to leave for a work trip to Texas the day after I got back. Ugh. I was a bit annoyed – I don’t like to book back to back travel – but then the work trip was postponed last week. Woo hoo!

Link to Random Thoughts Thursday 425

3 days away!

Wow, I really hemmed and hawed over running this half marathon on Saturday, and that is so unlike me! I usually make ultra quick decisions.

Questions I was asking myself:

  • Do I want to drive an hour to run?
  • Do I want to run an out and back on a public trail?
  • Do I want to get up early on a Saturday?
  • Do I want to spend that much time away from home on Saturday?
  • Is it a smart financial decision to spend $130 on a race?

And so on and so on.

Then I was googling:

  • Can I run after dying my hair?
  • Will exercise ruin my hair dye?
  • How long do I need to wait to exercise after I dye my hair?

Because I can’t remember if I shared it or not, but I made my hair dye appointment for this Friday! So I’d be running less than 24 hours after getting it dyed.

So I called the salon and they told me it was fine.

Then I signed up for the race.

Woo hoo!

(Other things I was considering:

  • I’m trained for this
  • Running feels really good
  • The weather looks decent
  • This is a treat for me
  • I can relax the rest of the day and weekend if I want to!
  • I can pick up vegan treats after the race)

Cutest Visitors!

We have such a busy and fulfilling October with loved ones! It started with a trip to Arkansas, then we went to Maine a week later, then my snister and her family stayed the night Friday and Sunday night this weekend on their way to and from Detroit (and there’s more – Steven has another trip and we have guests the last weekend of the month)!

This month is FLYING. In a good way!

I totally remembered my snister and her fam were staying the night Friday and Sunday. What did not connect in my brain is that that them staying Sunday meant maybe I should have taken some time off Monday morning? Oops. I realized this last Thursday, logged into work email Friday, and cautiously opened my work calendar to see if I had anything booked, and I didn’t until 10:30 am. Phew. So I was able to take some time off (I normally start at 6:30 or 7:00).

(So that I wouldn’t start late Monday all frantic trying to catch up, I spent an hour on Saturday reading and organizing emails and scheduling responses to go out Monday morning, and I’m glad I did – it wasn’t too bad and didn’t ruin my Saturday.)

Christina (snister), Will, and the kids (William, Leo, & Ella) arrived around 5:00 pm on Friday. We had a fun night of hanging out and eating pizza. The kids loved exploring the house. William had been here when he was little (and Leo, technically, since Christina was pregnant with him), and Ella when she was little too, but none of them remembered it, so they got to be in explorer mode on the first night.



I asked Ella to point to “papa” (what she calls my dad). So sweet!

Apollo did so well with the kids, which tracks – here he is with William (Christina’s oldest) in October 2018:

And here he is with Ella in October 2022. Ha! My snis likes to visit in October!

And here he is on this visit:


Starbuck hung around a little, and Ned and Khali hid. It was a bit loud, ha, so I don’t blame them!

It was fun to play with the kids and also get a chance to have some adult conversation while the kids were watching Netflix. A perfect mix!

They left Saturday morning, and returned Sunday around 3:00 pm. I texted Christina on their way back and asked if they wanted to go to Kroll’s Harvest Farm and she responded with “How did you know that’s what sis wanted?”

Ella was definitely dressed for the day!

We hung out a bit when they arrived, then drove to the farm, and did all the activities – petting zoo,


corn maze,


pumpkin donuts,

and the “hay” ride.

We got there around 4:00 and left around 5:30. It’s a small sized farm with minimal activities, but honestly, I think that was the right size for us!

Then we picked up Thai food and went back to the house and ate with Steven and Will, who had worked on a few projects while we were gone. It was fun to chat and joke around with them.

A few times William had asked if I wanted to paint, which I was hoping he would, because I hadn’t painted in four weeks! So we got everything out and drew and painted (Christina and Leo joined us too).

It felt nice to do it after so many weeks off. I didn’t miss it – I really hadn’t prioritized it and was completely fine with that – but it was nice to see I could still do it, and to sit down and focus on something. We’ll see if I do any more painting this month. I haven’t wanted to get the supplies out at night, and haven’t made time for it on the weekends.

We all called it a night around 8:00 pm which made me happy since that’s when I normally start my end of evening activities and get ready for bed. Perfect guests!

We had breakfast together Monday morning, hung out a bit, then Steven headed off to work, and Christina and fam left shortly after.

We’re so glad they stopped by! It was lovely to see them all and reassuring to see that our house isn’t super kid unfriendly. I was a bit concerned about that before their trip (not about any of my things getting damaged – IDGAF – but about safety for the kids). We just gated off the messy office and it went pretty well. Yay! We hope they visit again soon!

Maine Day 5 – Portland

We had a half day together with Val and Steve on our last day in Maine (Thursday October 12). Our plan was to check out the pond by the house, which we did, and it was absolutely gorgeous. I’m kind of regretting not kayaking on it, but we did so many other fun things.



Then we went to breakfast at The Friendly Toast in Portland, which Kiersten had recommended because they have vegan options. I got the vegan scramble and it was so so good! And Steven and I got a pancake to share that was decent, too. Steven said he liked two of my meals better than his on this trip – this scramble, and the grilled cheese I got Monday.


After that we went to MEow Cat Lounge in Westbrook.

A cat lounge hadn’t even been on our radar and for whatever reason it popped up when I was on my phone Thursday morning so we all decided to go. It was nice – they had a decent sized shop and room with all the cats. It made me realize how much I missed our cats and that I was happy to be on my way home to see them.






We dropped Val and Steve off at the airport (with plans to figure out our next get together soon because we all LOVED spending time together and vibed so well! I figured that would be the case but it made me really happy that it was.) then went back to the downtown Portland area to kill some time. We walked around, dropped off postcards, and I got another vegan donut.

I kept getting compliments on my shirt – at breakfast, at the cat cafe, walking around, at the airport. So nice! My friend Lauren in Australia gave it to me. It’s from KilkennyCat Art.

Then we headed back and dropped off our rental car and went through the very easy security into the tiny airport (they had, what, 14 gates?). I ADORE small airports. And love that they had free wifi so I could do a bit of posting and catching up on Instagram.

Our flight left on time around 4:40 ET. I spent the entire flight writing recaps of the trip and getting all the photos ready. It was a good use of a 2.5+ hour flight! Chicago ORD was so busy, and we landed then taxied for 20 minutes then waited at our gate for another 20. Sigh. Oh, Chicago.

But! When we got to the luggage carousel our bags were just coming out! And we went right to the parking garage and got the heck out of there and were home by 8:30 CT. I unpacked, had a PB sandwich, petted the cats a bit, then went to bed!

We had such a wonderful time in Maine and New Hampshire with Val and Steve. The only thing that would have made it better was it we hadn’t both gotten colds! But we didn’t let it slow us down and still got to see and do so much. I’m really grateful we finally got to see this part of the country, that we had great weather, and great company, and got to see Kiersten and Charlyn too.

These recaps have been very “I did this then this then that” style for ease of writing for me, and because I write separate private posts about inside jokes and other random things from the trip. All that to say, these come off a bit stale and robotic but please don’t interpret that to mean anything other than I am a lazy writer! We had a wonderful time away and it made me really excited to plan something for next year with Val and Steve!

Maine (New Hampshire!) Day 4 – Concord & White Mountain National Forest

On Wednesday (October 11) I woke up finally feeling better and having energy. FINALLY. Unfortunately, Steven now had my cold and felt like garbage. So I took over driving duties, and drove us just over an hour to the New Hampshire State House in Concord.

First though, we stopped at the Starbucks nearby to try to buy the New Hampshire Been There mug. They were out, and Val is so sweet and called all the local Starbucks to ask, and they were all out too. They told us they sell out fast when they do have them, so no New Hampshire mug for me, but I was able to get Maine in the airport the day we left! And I really appreciate Val calling so many of them!

Gah, I got so annoyed at Starbucks. We went inside and stood at the counter forever before they would talk to us. That just makes me bonkers. I was going to get a drink but got so mad I didn’t get anything. Deep breaths, Kim.

Okay, so then we went to the State House. I liked the exterior better than the one in Maine but the interior was pretty blah.

Still very cool to see though! And I liked the urban setting and that it was around shops and restaurants. Val and I went to the running store (where I found some vegan waffles and another pair of Goodrs), and we all got lunch at Dos Amigos Burritos. The burrito was good but the filling inside wasn’t super warm which I don’t prefer – I like the inside of my burrito to be warm.

Ugh, during lunch I had a choking fit. It happened once when I was driving too. I felt like there was something small, like a popcorn kernel, logged in my throat, and I couldn’t breath and my eyes started to water. So frustrating. I left the restaurant and went outside until it subsided then went back in (Steven came out to check on me, aww).

After lunch I drove us to the White Mountain National Park visitor center in Lincoln , and we got tips on what to see on our drive on the Kancamagus Highway. Val had researched the National Forest the day before and found the tip to drive that 35 mile scenic byway and I’m so glad she found it! We told a few locals in Concord we were going and they raved about it.

Steve took over driving after the visitor center and I moved to the navigator seat. We stopped at the Lincoln Woods suspension bridge and were awed by all the fall colors there,



went to a few overlooks that looked the same,

saw a cool waterfall at Sabbady Falls,


intended to read the interpretive signs at the Russell-Colbath House but just goofed around taking jumping photos (we all laughed so hard – Steve said that was his favorite part of the day, and Steven said it made his cold feel better),



and saw the Rocky Gorge.



The National Forest was beautiful and I can see why the person who told us about it liked it better IF what they were going for was fall color, because there was a lot of that there. I’m so glad we went. Again, I would LOVE to explore more of the trails there someday! It would have been cool to see part of the Appalachian trail.

We left the forest and Steve drove us to Revolution Taproom and Grill in Rochester, New Hampshire, where we were meeting Charlyn. I hadn’t seen her since March 1, 2020 when we came back from our Atlanta Olympics Marathon Trials trip! Isn’t that nuts? She moved to Maine about a year ago and I was like “ahh! Will I ever see her again?!”

I’m so glad it worked out to meet up. We got to catch up over appetizers and dinner, and I loved hearing about how different her life is in Maine and how much happier she is. My heart was very full after seeing her and Val and Steve enjoyed meeting her!

I drove us back to the Airbnb, and we got back just after 10:00. I mostly finished writing postcards (about 15?) then we all found out we didn’t win the lottery (womp womp) and called it a night. I got most of my things packed so I wouldn’t have to do it the next day. Poor Steven felt so horrible, and sounded horrible, and did NOT sleep well that night, but I slept much better, just like I had the day before, and hoped his cold would be as quick as mine!

Maine Day 3 – Augusta & Acadia National Park

I felt decent on our second day in Maine but I woke up the third day (Tuesday October 10) feeling like absolute garbage. My face was draining and I was sneezing so much and coughing a bit (I had warned Kiersten the day before that I was this way and she absolutely did not care since she had kids and is an infectious disease nurse, and Val & Steve also didn’t mind, but I still felt bad to be that way around them). I slept horribly and woke up counting down the minutes to when I could take Mucinex. Sigh. Anyway.

We had a fun adventure planned for the day – visiting the state capitol in Augusta, then going to Acadia National Park. I can’t believe how lucky I am (as a Midwesterner) to have been to three national parks this year – Saguaro, Joshua Tree, and now, Acadia. I’m very grateful.

Steven drove us to Augusta and we did the self guided tour of the State House. Val had said she’d never been inside a capitol building before and now she’s interested in checking out the inside of Colorado’s in Denver and maybe seeing Wyoming’s in Cheyenne. I think it’s fun (obviously).





The building wasn’t super impressive, but did overlook a beautiful park, which we enjoyed seeing. And I mailed my dad his birthday card from a mailbox inside of it, so now his card will have a Maine stamp.

Eek, when we were leaving, we heard a loud crunch behind us and two cars had collided. Maybe a Massachusetts driver? Ha, I say that, because both Kiersten, and later, Charlyn, were telling us how horrible the Masshole drivers are.

The crash sounded bad but luckily enough, an ambulance and cop car were right there so they just turned their lights on and drove the 100 feet to the accident. And I should note, we saw everyone get out the cars okay, so that made us feel better.

We stopped at Dunkin’ (Charlyn said they call it Dunk?) on the way out of town then began the long leg to Bar Harbor. The first leg to Augusta was just over an hour and the second was about two and a half. Ha, the day before when we told Kiersten we were planning to drive there she said “that’s so far!” and we were all talking about how it doesn’t seem far to us, being from bigger cities, but we totally get why it seems far to her (and it was far, ha).

Also, while I am talking about driving, whoa, the roads are so curvy and random out in Maine! I felt like I never really got my sense of direction because I was almost always on a weird curvy route. Definitely different from the Midwest!

We stopped at Mother’s Kitchen outside of the National Park and had delicious sandwiches, then headed to the visitor center to get a map and a park pass. And postcards, since I love to send them.

We had made a reservation to drive to the top of Cadillac Mountain, and somehow timed it perfectly for our 2:30-3:00 time slot. It was gorgeous up there and I definitely recommend it, if you go!





After we drove down we took the one way route around the park, stopping at Thunder Hole to hear the loud water that sounds like thunder,

Otter Point for a little walk, and Jordan Pond Path to see the mountains (hills?) reflect off the pond.


While we were at Jordan Pond Path another tourist asked us to take their picture then asked if we’d been to White Mountains National Forest in New Hampshire. I told them no, but my plan was to go there tomorrow, the group just didn’t know it yet. Ha. This person raved about the National Forest and said they missed it while being in Acadia and thought the forest was better. I would say it was different. Acadia (for us) was all shore and rock, which we loved seeing, and the forest was all about the trees (duh). But more on that tomorrow.

I loved getting a little glimpse of Acadia. Like with all National Parks, I wish I could spend more time there and do a serious hike.  Maybe some day!

We headed back toward our Airbnb with a stop at Mason’s Brewing Company in Brewer, Maine, where I got a vegan burger and fries. I think it was decent but I felt a bit meh so I didn’t enjoy it as much as I should.

Steven had been doing all the driving and then I started after we left the brewery and did the over two hour drive back. I think we got back around 10:30 pm. We did a lot in one day that had over 6 hours of car time!

Maine Day 2 – Portland

Our second day (Monday October 9) in Maine was our chillest day of the trip! We all slept in a bit, then went on a run on a trail I found nearby. It was so fun to run in a group of 4 on a beautiful trail with perfect weather. And I got to color in a new state on my map!



When we got back, Val and I jumped in the hot tub for a bit, then we cleaned up and headed into town. Val braided my hair every day we were together, starting Monday, and I loved it!

Steven had a very important mission in town – to get a pizza from Monty’s Fine Foods. He watches Barstool Pizza Review and that Italian market was recently featured and rated high and Steven wanted to try it. We’d actually planned to get dinner there the night before, but we arrived close to closing time (oops) and they were sold out. They told us to call back at 10:30 am the next and try to place an order for pickup, so that’s what he did and we successfully ordered a vegetarian and vegan pie.

The guy on this Pizza Review channel is really funny, and does this bit where he says “one bite, everyone knows the rules” then proceeds to take many bites, while saying that many more times. So we said that A LOT this weekend, and ended up rating almost everything we ate and did. It was fun.

We took the pizza to Fort Williams Park in Cape Elizabeth, where we were meeting Kiersten! We’ve been blogging friends for years and had never met and I was so pumped to meet her. I absolutely loved her energy and how friendly and open she was, AND how knowledgeable she was about the area. We felt like we had our own tour guide! Everyone loved her!

And she brought us vegan and regular donuts from The Holy Donut. You can’t go wrong with donuts!!! We all decided she should start her own business where she does city tours while everyone eats donuts. We still need to work out some of the business plan.

After we ate our pizza (Steve got a lobster roll – I had no idea how expensive those were! Almost $50 for it! He absolutely loved it. He’d had one the last time they were in Maine and that was the ONE thing he wanted to do in Maine.) and donuts we walked around Fort Williams Park to see the cliffs,

old fort, abandoned mansion, and the Portland Head Light (lighthouse).


Steven had told me the one thing he wanted to do in Maine was see a typical Maine coastline with cliffs so we knocked that off the list right away!

We all really enjoyed the scenery and chatting with Kiersten. And the beautiful weather. We somehow had completely comfortable, nearly perfect fall weather each day of our trip. Lucky us!

After Fort Williams we went to Spring Point Ledge Light in South Portland, which is a lighthouse you walk on big boulders to get out too. It was so fun and I was kind of shocked it was open to the public, but I absolutely loved it – it felt like such an adventure.


We went to Cheeze Louise, a grilled cheese place in Portland, for dinner,

then chased it with gelato (sorbet for me) from The Gelato Fiasco. That was the best sorbet I’ve ever had. I am usually annoyed with icy dull sorbet but it was delicious!

We also stopped at a cool shop that had goods from Maine artists and I got some fun stickers and both Val and I got the “Run ME” shirt!

We said our goodbyes to Kiersten and traveled back to our Airbnb and did a bit of planning for the next day (we decided to go to Acadia National Park) then got in the Hot Tub before calling it a night (oh, and Steven and I watched one more episode of Silo).

It was such a lovely first full day. Kiersten was an absolute delight and I loved our time together. And, just loved all the time together with Val & Steve. We spent so much quiet time with them on this trip – lots of car time and walking – that we had many wonderful opportunities to connect and share. That’s really what I love the most about these trips! I realized I used the word love a million times in that paragraph, but hey, it describes it perfectly.

Maine Day 1 – Portland

We just got back from a wonderful trip to Maine with Val and her husband Steve!

The seed for this trip was planted when I asked Val if she wanted to go to New Hampshire to run a race being announced by Ali from the Ali on the Run podcast. Then it became “we should bring our husbands too and explore the area!” Then we realized Ali would understandably not be announcing any races there but decided we should still go. When I mentioned that on the blog Kiersten said “if you’re going to be in New Hampshire you might as well come to Maine too!” And I was like, duh, Steven and I have been talking about how we want to visit Maine for YEARS. Like, since college. 20 years ago. F-o-r-e-v-e-r. So we pivoted to a Maine trip with maybe a day trip to New Hampshire. And I’m so glad we did!

Val, Steve, and I booked this trip when we were together in August, and I threw a few ideas and restaurants on our travel spreadsheet shortly after, then was a super slacker when it came to planning anything. Oops. When we left Sunday morning, I knew we’d figure it out when we were all together (and Steve was so complimentary of all the planning I did. I appreciate that, because I felt like I did so little!).

Ugh, also, when we left Sunday morning, I had a slightly scratchy throat. It came out of nowhere (well, that’s not true – it came from SOMETHING, I just mean I didn’t have any symptoms before Sunday morning). I tried to think positively that it was just from the switch to cooler weather, but nope, by the time I went to bed Sunday night, my voice was all weird and my face was draining. Wah.

Why body, why? Why do you do this to me when I am finally on a vacation? (Answer: because my body is finally NOT in a constant stress state and sees an opportunity to get sick?)

Anyway. For the first few days of this trip I didn’t feel like my normal energetic travel version of Kim. But it got better by the third full day, thankfully.

So back to Sunday. Steven and I flew out of Chicago ORD in the late morning and arrived in Portland, Maine in the early afternoon. It looked charming and quaint just flying in! I was excited to see it on the ground.

We picked up our rental car and went to the downtown Portland area to kill some time before we picked up Val and Steve. It was nice to get the lay of the land before they got in, since we did most of the driving and navigating.

After they arrived (and Steven and Steve met for the first time!) we got a few things from the grocery store, then went back down to the downtown/port area to walk around and get dinner. Val and Steve had been to Portland on an upper east coast trip they did in May and knew a bit about the shops and history of the area, which was fun (since, see above, I had done no research).

At one point, we walked down a harbor and a local said “What do you call a deer with no eyes?” We asked what, and he responded “No I deer” but with the accent it sounded like “idear” and we all thought it was hilarious.

We went to The Green Elephant, an Asian Vegetarian Restaurant for dinner. We got some appetizers, noodle dishes for our main course, and tried the pumpkin tapioca. Everything was pretty good, but I was fading fast at that point (I hadn’t taken any cold medicine since I thought it was just a tickle in my throat).

Then we headed to our Airbnb in Standish (<– definitely click that link to see how beautiful it is!). When I research Airbnbs I’m all about the ambiance/aesthetic of it, and the amount of bathrooms and bedrooms. This Airbnb did NOT dissapoint. It was a cute little home in the woods that looked exactly like the listing photos and we all loved it! I love when I’ve found a great Airbnb because I’ve picked out some real stinkers!

We hung out a bit in the Airbnb but didn’t stay up super late because we’d all had a long day, especially Val and Steve because they had a connecting flight to get to Portland from Denver. Oh! But Steven and I did watch an episode of Silo, since the Airbnb had Apple+. He liked it, so we may have to get a month subscription to finish it up at home!

Reading Update 2023 (#53-55)

[53] Mile High by Liz Tomforde
Fiction / Romance / Sports, saw in “Available Now” on Libby, audiobook

Synopsis: Zanders, Chicago’s bad boy star hockey player, has a list of women he can call in every city his team stops in. He’s not looking for commitment. Stevie, the new flight attendant on the team’s private plane can’t stand Zanders and how pompous and cocky he is. And she’s sworn off dating athletes. But the bickering between them leads to playful banter and a desire to be together. Can Zanders give up his playboy persona and can they sneakily be together and avoid getting caught for the “no fraternizing with team players” rule for the flight attendants?

Review: There’s lots of chemistry between Zanders and Stevie, and they’re both layered, interesting characters (with lots of interesting side characters and story going on), but holy crap this is WAY too long. It was 16 hours and 48 mins. I think the printed copy is over 600 pages? Just no. For that, I’m out. As in, I can’t recommend this. I don’t think I will listen to the second book in the series if it’s that long. It just dragged on.

(I will say, I did love the found family storyline, but still, no)

Recommend? No

[54] Always the Last to Know by Kristan Higgins
Fiction / Women, recommendation from Kim Hooper, Kindle

Synopsis: The Frosts are a divided family. Barb, the mother, favors Juliet, the oldest daughter, an architect who seemingly has the perfect life. John, the husband, favors Sadie, the much younger daughter, who’s living a chaotic life in New York city, teaching art to grade schoolers, and trying to sell her own art on the side. Barb and John’s 50th wedding anniversary is coming up, and Barb’s planned gift is to ask for a divorce, but then John falls and has a stroke and everyone’s lives change.

Review: Family dramas, you know I love them. There was so much ick to me in each parent obviously favoring one child. Aren’t parents supposed to hide that? Ha. It made me want to keep reading to see how much more ridiculous the story would get. I’ve definitely read juicier family dramas, but this was a quick and easy read that kept me coming back to see what was going to happen, and I enjoyed it.

Recommend? Yes

[55] Dust by Hugh Howey
Fiction / Dystopian, 3rd in series, audiobook

Synopsis: This is the final book in the Silo trilogy, where folks live in a huge silo underground, and don’t know why and aren’t allowed to leave.

Review: I appreciate that this was shorter than the last book – only 8 hours. And the story moved faster too. But, I could barely follow it. Is part of it because I was bored and my mind was wandering? Yes? Is part of it because I was sick of reading about people moving around in an underground silo? Also yes. Meh. It kind of wrapped things up but left me with a lot of questions, and I don’t want to think about these books anymore so I’m a bit annoyed. Ha.

Recommend? No

Hi! I’m Kim, a 40-something-year-old living in northeastern Illinois with my husband Steven, and our cats, Khaleesi, Apollo, Starbuck, and Eddard aka Ned. My current main hobbies are running, painting rocks, flying, reading, and eating. I follow a vegan lifestyle and work in an account management role. I write about a variety of topics and consider this a “life” blog – a place I can share anything that’s on my mind. Please visit the “About” page to get a better idea of who I am! 🙂

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