Stitch Fix #17

I’ll post Random Thoughts Thursday tomorrow (on Friday).

I wasn’t feeling very excited for this fix when I saw my preview last week – it was 5 pairs of jeans and 5 sweaters.  I did ask for jeans and sweaters, but didn’t like much of it, so I picked out two pairs of jeans and asked for cozy sweatshirts. I was thinking “this will probably be my last fix!” but then I really liked the tops I received. And the jeans are decent too (I just need to figure out what kind of shoes to wear with them). Anyway! Here is what I got:

STUDIO BLUE Kenova Mid Rise Skinny Roll Cuff Jean

Ha, ignore the sock look!

I usually avoid jeans that hit at the ankle but thought I would give them a try. What shoes do you think would work with them? The profile card shows them with a high heel mule – I definitely don’t have anything like that! I could do flats or sneakers, right? No? HELP ME.

STS BLUE Ellie High Rise Finished Hem Ankle Skinny Jean

Just a millennial, still wearing skinny jeans. I love skinny jeans but hate how my compression socks make them cling to my lower legs.

LETY & ME Alaia Long Sleeve Hooded Sweater

I love hoodies and stripes. Sold!

MARKET & SPRUCE Perine Pocket Hooded Knit Top

Another cozy hoodie? Yes, please. It has a fun detail on the back too.

STACCATO Carson Crew Neck Button Detail Sweater

Ignore the bad jeans pairing! I will wear these with a dark wash.

I just love button shoulder details. My last fix had one and one of my fave original sweaters from them did too!

So yeah, I was pleasantly surprised. I will do at least one more fix for our Europe trip in the spring.

The long way there (and back)

We were in Kansas City this past weekend for Steven’s friend’s visitation and funeral. I’m glad we could go, especially to hear everyone share stories. Steven has been friends with these folks since kindergarten, and they have a really special bond. I love being a periphery member of the group and getting to spend time with them.

And that’s all I am going to write about that! It feels crass and disrespectful to talk much about it.

INSTEAD, I am going to tell you all about getting to Kansas City and back home. Because it was an adventure!

We wanted to fly private (meaning Steven would fly us and we’d have an instructor with us). Commercial flights were stupid expensive and actually comparable in price (it didn’t end up that way but more on that later), then add in driving to the airport, parking cost, all the time you waste there, blah blah blah. I felt like this was the ONE time that flying private might be the same cost?!

Steven’s instructor Josh wasn’t available, but Josh asked around if anyone else wanted to go with us and another instructor said she would. Yay!

So then Steven was watching the weather all week to see how feasible it was for him to fly. We didn’t know we were flying ourselves there until the day we left! Not knowing how we were getting there was a really good exercise for me to learn to be more chill.

Gosh this is already too long. Yikes.

We got to the airport around noon on Friday and Steven checked the weather again (when I say he checked the weather I don’t mean he went to accuweather.com – he looks at a bunch of different reports and sites. Maybe when he reads this he will send me more details on what those are and I will update this section), then did preflight on the plane, then we did an hour long weather debrief with the instructor going with us. It was clear where we were in Chicago, but there was weather sitting over Kansas City that had the potential of creating storms. So we planned to head that way and reroute if need be. There was LOTS of contingency planning.

We left at 2:33 and I instantly had that dumb grin on my face I get when we fly. We had planned to go up to 6,000 feet but we had to stay below the clouds so we did most of the flight at 2,500 feet which meant I had my face plastered to the window for most of the flight.

Flying through a break in the clouds – only to come back down later

Crossing the Mississippi River

About an hour outside of Kanas City they checked the weather and saw clouds on the radar they did not want to try to fly between to get to Kansas City, so we diverted to an airport north of Kansas City in St. Joseph. Womp womp.

Landing in St. Joseph

I called the St. Joseph FBO (fixed-base operator) at 4:58 to see if they could get us a rental car and they said Enterprise closed at 5:00 but they would see what they could do! Eek! But they delivered. We landed at 5:26 and a rental car was there waiting for us. (I still think it’s so cool I can text and call from the plane at low altitudes.) So after we did all the post flight stuff we drove down to Kanas City – a 50 minute drive. Ugh. Ha.

When we flew in Friday the weather looked promising for leaving Sunday, but then it got iffy Sunday due to temperatures and a low cloud ceiling that created an icing risk on the plane.

We drove up to St. Joseph Sunday morning anyway – we wanted to fly from there to Kansas City (MKC) so Steven could see what landing there was like since he plans to in the future. And we brought his dad along for the ride! We left at 11:36 and landed around 12:05.

This flight was unique because the tower let us fly through the Bravo airspace around the Kansas City International (MCI) airport (not the one we were going to – we were going to the downtown airport – MKC).

The downtown Kansas City airport is pretty cool because it’s right by the downtown (derp) – so there is a neat view from the ramp and when you take off.

Steven’s brother, him, me, Steven’s dad

Flight instructor, Steven, me, Steven’s dad

We had time to kill because of weather and the icing risk, so we went to lunch then came back and took off at 4:11.

We flew right over the city. It was so neat! I’ve been visiting Kansas City since 2002 when Steven and I started dating so I recognized a lot of what I saw.

Our plan was to head toward the Quad Cities in Iowa then reevaluate if we could go all the way to Chicago or if we needed to stop somewhere to wait for weather to clear up. When Steven and the instructor checked the weather, there was still a low ceiling and icing risk, so we rerouted to Waterloo, Iowa (ALO) where my snister would pick us up and we’d spend the night there. It’s another airport Steven plans to fly to in the future, so even though we would have liked to fly all the way home, it was good to get the experience.

Landing at ALO at 5:55

Note – my snister was also in Kansas City for work this weekend, with her husband and kids, and our parents. I actually got to see her and her husband briefly at the Saturday visitation (they were friends with the friend who passed too) but didn’t see the rest of the family and we were all kind of bummed about it, but it made absolutely no sense to try to fit it into all of our packed schedules.

Snis and me

So it was a wonderful treat to spend the evening with them all! Oh! But I was going to say, my snis got home around 4:40 then left a little over an hour later to pick us up at the airport. When I get home after a trip I just want to unpack and relax, not have people in my home, but us staying the night on such short notice did not phase them at all! Thanks so much snis and fam!

We did another weather check before we left ALO to make sure if made sense to spend the night and it did. We felt better when we talked to another pilot who was doing the same.

So yeah, we hung out at Christina and Will’s and got to see everyone! Yay!

Dad, me, Mom, Steven. My poor parents – they got back to my snister’s and just stayed there. They must have been so beat too. 

We were planning on being home early afternoon Sunday, but also knew there’s always a possibility your flight plans can change so we had what we needed to stay an extra day and work a bit (and I was able to set up cat sits and cancel my strength class). Even when we do a day trip we take what we need for a potential overnight. This is just the first time we’ve executed that backup plan!

I started work at 6:30 am Monday (Ick! I wanted to just take it off but had a 7:30 meeting I only saw the night before when I emailed my supervisor at 11:00 pm) and ended up being on calls until almost 9:00, then wrapped up, hung out a bit with the fam and we left for the airport around 9:45.

My snis has been sending us a Christmas Countdown pic each day and I got to be in this one with Ella!

The weather looked good to go, yay, so the FBO got the plane out of the hangar (we put it in there so it wouldn’t have frost on it – it was already starting to frost over when we landed Sunday night), Steven did preflight, and we left at 11:12.

Snister loaned me a blanket – the heat is either ON or OFF in the Cessna 182 and it was cold when it was off

It was really neat to fly out over my hometown and see a lot of familiar landmarks, and my childhood home, etc. I will spare you those pics because they only mean anything to me, ha.

Crossing the Mississippi

The instructor had filed an IFR (instrument flight rules) plan for this flight. The other three flights were all VFR (visual flight rules). They used the IFR most of the way there then canceled the plan and went to VFR. The sky was clear until we got to scattered clouds around Chicago.

Landing at UGN

Back at UGN!

We landed at 12:46 and did all the post flight stuff and I was back home and at work at 2:00.

And kind of exhausted and over it.

I’m still glad we went this way though. We learned a lot about flying in cold weather. A LOT. And Steven got to practice with an instructor that has different techniques than Josh.

It’s just too bad that all those diversions added up quite a few extra hours and made it a lot more money than we predicted! (We rent the plane per hour it’s running). Oops. We learned about that too, ha ha. (also, *cry*)

Random Thoughts Thursday 433

  • Last night was our office holiday party. In the morning I drove to a different train stop so I would have more options to come home later, then was thinking “will I even want to stay late? Will I have anyone to talk to for that long?” (The party was from 4:00-7:00.) But the time flew by and I talked with lots of different people and had a great time! It’s amusing being the only sober one at these things. I ended up taking the 8:32 train home (got home past 10:00) and am glad I had the later option!

My outfit for the holiday party. Three people approached me to tell me they could tell I’d lost weight and thought I looked great, which was nice (some people don’t like that, but it doesn’t bother me – none of these people said it in a weird way). One of them said I walked “like an athlete – light on my feet.” Aww. Do I? Ha ha. 

  • Random (but not really) pet peeve – when you ask someone to take a group photo of you and they cut off your feet.
  • Steven had loaned me some .5 readers and I finally tried them on last Thursday (after whining about my vision Wednesday) and WHOA! Everything was so crisp! I ordered some readers that are more me. Can I skip eye makeup now?

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Reading Update (2023 #65-67)

This review is entirely audiobooks because my Kindle books were non-fiction (Atomic HabitsAnti-Diet) and I couldn’t get through them! Crazy because I used to only read non-fiction… and also only read a few books a year.

[65] Things I Wish I Told My Mother by Susan Patterson, Susan DiLallo, James Patterson
Fiction/Women, saw in “Available Now” on Libby, audiobook

Synopsis: Laurie and her mother Liz are opposites and have never gotten along, but when Liz has a heart scare, Laurie suggests they go on a European trip as a reward for leaving the hospital, and hopes they can bond a bit while there.

Review: I was really enjoying this surface-level book (I finished it in a day!), then the ending made me so completely irate I knocked it down from 4 to 3 stars. I do NOT recommend it unless you want to be that frustrated. I should have paid attention to the second part of this description from GoodReads: “A mother and daughter on vacation in Paris unpack a lifetime of secrets and hopes—with a giant Pattersonian twist at the end!” Ugh, I am still so annoyed with it.

Recommend? No

[66] The Rumor by Elin Hilderbrand
Fiction/Women, saw in “Available Now” on Libby, audiobook

Synopsis: Nantucket folks love to gossip, and when Madeline rents an apartment to help focus on writing her next novel, the rumor mill starts about her relationship with her husband, and her relationship with her best friend Grace’s husband. But maybe Madeline is the wrong one to gossip about…

Review: This was such a light, fun listen with lots of people misbehaving and rumors gone awry. This is what I wanted Bad Summer People to be. There are a lot of storylines in this book, but the great narration made them easy to follow, and I found them all interesting and didn’t feel like I was slogging through any of them or trying to rush through one to get to my favorite storyline.

Recommend? Yes

[67] Beautiful Day by Elin Hilderbrand
Fiction/Women, saw in “Available Now” on Libby, audiobook

Synopsis: Ha, I cannot remember any of the character names or find them with very little googling. Oops. Two families are united on Nantucket for a summer wedding and it should all be going according to plan – the bride is following the wedding plans her late mother made her to a T. But no family gathering is without drama, and as people reunite past grievances resurface and the weekend is anything but calm.

Review: Hmm. I didn’t love this book as much as other Hilderbrand books. Don’t get me wrong, I loved the juicy family drama, but even though it was set in the summer, I didn’t get the offset of happy summer vibes with it. Ha. There were some other annoyances – every few chapters was devoted to “the notebook” where the late mother had said how she wanted her daughter’s wedding to be and was just… super ick to me. It didn’t feel endearing. It felt controlling and odd. And there were smart phone references that seemed SO outdated (this book came out in 2013). Great narration again though, like in the previous book, but overall, meh.

Recommend? Nah

Best laid plans and all that

When I had my INR appointment (where they check how fast my blood is clotting*) early last month and it went so well that we booked my next appointment A WHOLE MONTH out I thought “that December 4th appointment could be my last appointment of the year! I better have my holiday gifts ready for the (hospital) pharmacists (at the Anticoagulation Clinic) in case I don’t see them again until January.”

I immediately put a reminder in my calendar to get their gifts ready this past weekend and had them with me yesterday.

Then my INR was so low** I have to bridge my blood thinners with a shots twice a day and go back in Thursday morning to test it again.

Best laid plans and all that. I feel like I jinxed myself!

I still gave Sonia her gift since I had it with me, and now I will see Edyta in person on Thursday to give her hers, and likely be back next week or the following.

A year ago (or even half a year ago!), I would have seen this as a set back and been upset, especially about the shots. But now, I try to figure out why my INR got low (if I can), then sort of shrug it off. The most annoying part is if I have to go pick up the shots at the CVS pharmacy in Target, and if it’s hard to find time with my work schedule to come back and get tested again. Otherwise… it is what it is***. And I call that attitude progress!

*I have Antiphospholipid Syndrome – my body makes antibodies that attack tissue and form clots, so I have to be on blood thinners and have my INR (International Normalized Ratio) monitored
**When it’s too low your blood clots too fast. I cut my finger this weekend and it hardly bled, and I got my first bloody nose since being on blood thinners this morning and it hardly bled so… yeah, my INR is low.
***That other people give me my shots (Steven at home, my snis when I am at her house) helps me have this attitude

First time I ever ironed my PJs 🤭

I had the best time at the WWM Holiday PJ Party on Saturday night! It was seriously the most fun I’ve ever had at a holiday party. I was laughing so hard my cheeks hurt!

I was really excited to go to it, but a small part of me was like “er, I am still kind of new and don’t know everyone’s names or know too many people too well. Will I just stand somewhere by myself the whole night?”

Of course, that didn’t happen. I was chatting to people as soon as I got there, then joined a fun game of Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza, ate with a group, then had a blast watching people play silly holiday themed physical games*, loved the White Elephant Game**, and did a few karaoke songs before I came home with a huge smile on my face.

What a great way to start off the month!

And yes, I did get my PJs out of the drawer and realized they needed to be ironed before I went. Who would have thought I’d ever be ironing my PJs?! They actually still look a bit wrinkly in the photo below, ha ha ha.

Me with Marybel, the owner

Oh! And there were gifts for the first 5 people and I was number 5, so I got this awesome tumbler!

*Game 1 was trying to pick up candy canes from a bowl with one tied around your waist, Game 2 was being blindfolded (I did this one) and using your non dominant hand to scoop super light “snowballs” on to a plate, and Game 3 was having a container with a tiny hole on it on your back that you have to shake ornaments out of. That one was hilarious (they all were). People were twerking and being so silly.
**I brought a painted rock, paint pens, and some blank rocks as my gift, and got a scent theory set (room spray, candle, bubble bath) & champagne as my gift!


Oh! One last WWM thing!

A friend of mine said she knew how much I was enjoying WWM classes and wanted to get me a WWM gift card for Christmas but didn’t see any on the website so she made this one and sent me a check. How incredibly thoughtful! And perfect timing because I had just changed from the 12 pack to 18 pack the day it arrived! I have the best friends.

2023 Goals Check-in #11

I’ll be posting monthly check-ins on my 2023 Goals. This is check-in #11!

Take care of my health

TW: this one is particularly whiny about weight and mentions binge eating

I’ve felt ashamed of not making more weight loss progress in the second half of the year and then sharing it here in my monthly update, but I know you all don’t judge me or particularly care so… get out of your head, Kim. Also, I don’t “have” to share anything I don’t want to (I won’t track this here in 2024), and weight shouldn’t be (and isn’t) my only focus! But it is my main metric in this section so… I get in my head.

All that being said, this was another month where I felt out of control with my eating. And I don’t mean I had too many sweets or overate, I mean binge eating. It was disappointing to have so many struggles with it this month, when I had been doing well throughout most of the year. The most disappointing part is I cannot figure out the trigger*, other than having less structure in my life than in the earlier part of the year because of travel. I need to rewire my brain. And I need to give myself grace that I won’t unlearn 22+ years of bad habits in one. Come on, Kim.

The numbers: .9% loss for the month, 21.19% loss for the year.

I ran, walked, biked, and took strength classes at WWM this month. I had two therapy sessions, one massage, and one (good!) INR appointment. I journaled. I prioritized getting enough sleep when I could. I painted a bit more.

I will end this section on a positive! I’m excited to fit in my favorite orange winter coat again (third photo above)!

*Most research says restriction leads to bingeing, but I don’t think I am very restrictive beyond my vegan diet (for ethical reasons) and trying not to wolf down LOTS of sweets every day. Maybe I need a professional outside perspective on that though. 

Spend less
(mostly tracking my two vices – sending packages and getting Starbucks)

I’m back to shipping birthday and holiday gifts, and there will be more shipping in December.  I spent $10.61 and $8.81 on shipping birthday gifts to friends in the US, and $23.04 and $35.26 on shipping holiday gifts to friends in Australia. $77.72 total

January: $248.76
February: $81
March: $72.54
April: $44.40
May: $37.37
June: $99.47
July: $15.09
August: $48.86
September: $32.35
October: $0
November: $77.72
Total: $757.56

Last year: $1740

I started buying more holiday gifts this month. I’m not even going to calculate what I spent! Follow me for more financial advice, ha ha.

I went to Starbucks on 11/11 with Val and Tiff (and we used a gift card from my snis, thank you!), 11/15 at my office with coworkers, and 11/29 when I was in the office, but by myself.

Continue to purge things I don’t use from the house

I took two bags to Goodwill on the 20th.

Visit a new state with Steven

We visited two new states in October – Maine and New Hampshire!

Maine Day 1
Maine Day 2
Maine Day 3
Maine/New Hampshire Day 4
Maine Day 5

Hide a rock a day for the year

Still doing it! Just one more month, woo hoo! I think documenting this every day has put me off of documentation. Maybe that is why I didn’t take any pictures or videos at my rock class (and I really didn’t want to take any video for reels when I was in California this month). This year has really steered me away from social media. At least, the social media that takes a lot of work.

Things I’m excited about in December

Woo hoo, I remembered to do this series (because of a Google calendar reminder, shhh)! Here is something that should have been on the November list but wasn’t because it was a surprise – our sunset skyline tour!


Now, on to December:

  • Steven’s stage check pre solo flight tonight* – he’ll fly with another instructor and when he passes he’ll be approved to do his first solo flight! *weather pending
  • The WWM Holiday Party tomorrow – it’s a pajama themed party with food, games, and karaoke
  • My work’s holiday party next week – I’m usually bummed I have to leave so early to catch the train so I’m going to plan ahead and drive to a different station with more train options this year
  • Steven’s birthday (and the cake I ordered for him!)
  • Longer days starting December 22nd (coincidentally, Steven’s birthday)
  • Seeing my family for Christmas
  • How quiet it will be at work the week of December 25th

What are you excited about in December?

Random Thoughts Thursday 432

I bought this sweatshirt in Carpinteria and will be living in it this cold season

  • I’m not sure if this is new to Windows, or if I just live under a rock, but on Sunday it asked me if I wanted to try Phone Link, to link my iPhone to my PC. I was hoping this would somehow help with downloading photos (I’ve been having issues with that since the latest iOS update and Windows update). It didn’t, but it does something I’ve wanted to do FOREVER but was too lazy to figure out how to – it lets me receive and respond to text messages from my PC. This is amazing. Some people type me novels and I would much rather respond with a full keyboard. Honestly, I’d always rather use a computer keyboard to respond.
  • Here’s the latest mani I got with Lorena Wednesday last week. It’s mood changing polish so when my hands are (rarely) warm, it changes to a red. Fun! I hadn’t ever used the color changing polish before, surprisingly.

  • I am slowly figuring out which days we will see which European friends on our trip next spring! I’m very excited that a friend of mine who lives in Germany (Hi, Dunja!) is traveling to Brussels to spend time with us while we’re there! Yay!!!
  • I got my bonus leave at work, woo hoo! And when I hit 15 years on December 8th I get more leave too!
  • I signed up for a December accountability challenge at my gym. Things like that aren’t usually my jam – I don’t tend to be externally motivated – but I thought I’d give it a try. You get points for uploading photos and going to class. I won’t get the most points and win, but I do hope to be motivated by it!

The winner gets a $50 merch credit (and second place gets $25). I actually won a $25 merch credit in November and ordered this shirt. I love a good pun!

  • Tis the time of year where I am happy to wear my compression socks because it’s cold out and no one can see them. Ha ha!

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I am AGING

My eyesight is starting to deteriorate and it’s freaking me the f-word out. I’ve never had to wear corrective lenses, so to wake up with fuzzy vision and not be able to clearly read text on my phone for a few minutes, or to see streaks around car lights at night (or even off of lettering on my shirt in the gym, wth) is concerning.

Not concerning that something is wrong with me or that something is bad about having unclear eyesight. I know an ophthalmologist can tell me what I need to do. I know this is normal and there are solutions!

Concerning in that it’s a reminder I am AGING. A not so small part of me was hoping I’d have perfect vision, naturally, forever. Is that even possible? Ha.

Ugh.

Hi! I’m Kim, a 40-something-year-old living in northeastern Illinois with my husband Steven, and our cats, Khaleesi, Apollo, Starbuck, and Eddard aka Ned. My current main hobbies are running, painting rocks, flying, reading, and eating. I follow a vegan lifestyle and work in an account management role. I write about a variety of topics and consider this a “life” blog – a place I can share anything that’s on my mind. Please visit the “About” page to get a better idea of who I am! 🙂

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