[13] The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
Fiction / Women, recommendation from Amy P
Trigger Warnings: Suicide, Death
Synopsis: Nora Seed has hit rock bottom – her cat just died, she’s not on speaking terms with her only remaining family member, and she’s lost her job. She regrets all the things she could have done with her life – she could have stuck with swimming, she could have finished that novel, she could have studied glaciers, she could have stayed in her rock band… and so on. Nora decides to end her life and finds herself in the Midnight Library – the library with infinite books containing the other parallel possibilities Nora’s life could have taken. And now Nora has the chance to sample them and see if she can find a better life.
Review: What an interesting premise, right? I love the potential of parallel universe type stories. It’s interesting to see Nora dip around in these other parallel lives and learn that nothing is ever perfect, and that she does not need to have all the regrets she had in her base life. Nora is likable, and the stories are easy to follow, but I wish she could have spent a bit more time in each one. But that would have meant less stories OR a really long book, so I think the author actually hit the right balance. This wasn’t a five-star read for me (I had major anxiety when she showed up in a new life and had no idea what was going on and had to fake her way through), but I enjoyed it and found it interesting.
Recommend? Sure
[14] The Twin Paradox by Charles Watcher
Science Fiction, Saw in Bookbub
Synopsis: DNA from history’s greatest minds and leaders – Einstein, Da Vinci, MLK, Marie Curie – is being used to make clones. As those children turn eighteen and learn who they are, they leave home to do a one year “internship” at a facility where time is no longer linear, and a very dangerous climate has been created.
Review: I didn’t want to give much away in my synopsis, because a lot of the fun of this book was going in NOT knowing what was up. But whoa. This book is action packed. I think it’s the most plot-based novel I’ve ever read – despite still having some historical sprinklings in it. I really enjoyed it. it kept me guessing, the sci fi was believable enough, the environment was built succinctly, the characters were likable, and the “what the f*ck is going on?!” factor kept me on the edge of my seat (well, I read in bed but ya know). I can’t wait for the part II. And for the movie adaptation?!
Recommend? Yes!
[15] How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Self-Help / Communication & Social Skills, Read for “Women’s Group”
Synopsis: Carnegie’s popular book from 1936 gives tips on, well, how to win friends and influence people.
Review: This book is easy to read, and even though it’s MANY years old, the examples were still mostly relevant and not too outdated, or insulting. Most of the tips boil down to treating people with respect, asking them questions and being interested in their lives, not belittling them, etc. If you need to be told to be interested in someone’s else’s life to make friends with them, then this book is for you. If you are already aware that that is how most friendships are formed and maintained, you do not need to read this book. Ha. I was interested in the “influencing people” tips, from a work perspective, and I think some of them would work, and some wouldn’t. All joking aside, I can see why this book is so popular, but it’s common sense – treat people decently and be interested in their lives.
Recommend?Β No
You know, it’s funny, I came across “The Midnight Library” recently in my library, and while it sounded intriguing I just couldn’t bring myself to read a book about someone who commits suicide – I guess I’ve gotten sensitive about that from my volunteer work…
But what I will tell you, is I recently read a really terrific book that I found the same day, it was so good, I am thinking of just reading it again: “The Bass Rock” by Evie Wyld. Really good – a bit of a thriller, historical, character driven,…
It cracks me up that you read that Dale Carnegie book – how funny that it is still actually relevant today. Although like you said, only for people who need to be told what sounds like basic common decency, right?
One of my friends wrote a really good review of the book and how they totally skirt over the seriousness of suicide. This book is definitely not for you!
Ooo, I need to look it up, thanks!
Ha, I know right? I read it for a group I am in, can’t remember if I mentioned that. I can actually think of a lot of people who should read it and follow it, but never will π
Ooh yes, I forgot about the anxiety I felt whenever Nora was dropped into a new life. I was just like, “Stop asking questions you should know the answers to!!!!!” Hahaha. It was really distracting and gave me so much secondhand embarrassment. Totally understand!
It would be really interesting to read an updated version of How to Win Friends and Influence People. It’s just one of those books I’ve never thought of picking up since the examples would be so outdated, but I guess the overarching theme doesn’t change with time, of being kind/interested in people’s lives.
Exactly! I just hated that part about it!
It would be interesting! Most of the examples are fine, but there were a few that made me go “huh?” Ha ha. I don’t think you need to read this book – you already do those things!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on Midnight Library. I’ve read some of the reviews online, and opinions seem to vary widely! I know that I am going to read it – the possibility of multiverses has always intrigued me – but I’m also going in knowing that it might not be the transformative experience for me that it seems to have been for some others. π
I’ll probably skip the Carnegie book…. thanks for the honest review. π
That is what drew me in too! I love multiverse stories. Let me know what you think of it.
You’re welcome! You def don’t need it!