Reading Update (2025 #28-30)

[28] Technically Yours by Denise Williams
Fiction / Romance / Multicultural & Interracial, saw at a bookstore, audio

Synopsis: When Pearl Harris becomes acting director of a coding nonprofit rocked by scandal, the last person she expects to see on the board is Cord Matthews – the man she hasn’t stopped thinking about in seven years. As old sparks reignite, their growing connection threatens to complicate both Pearl’s career and Cord’s no-strings rule.

Review: Meh. I appreciated what the author was going for – a strong, capable female lead who prioritizes her family and career over romance – but it didn’t land for me. The focus on the nonprofit storyline dragged, and the flashbacks to Pearl and Cord’s initial connection didn’t spark much interest. Overall, it felt slow, with a strange and frustrating dark moment that left me more annoyed than invested.

Recommend? No

[29] Follow Me by Elizabeth Rose Quinn
Fiction / Psychological, saw on Amazon ad, Kindle

Synopsis: A year after her twin sister Chiara vanished during a mom-fluencer retreat, Adrienne Shaw is done waiting for answers. Determined to find the truth, she goes undercover at the same remote, cult-like influencer ranch in Northern California. As she digs deeper, Adrienne must keep up the facade while uncovering dark secrets, before the too-perfect women running the retreat realize she’s not one of them.

Review: What a random pick for me – but I was surprisingly into it! The whole book is dripping with snark (love it!), and I had to find out what happened to Chiara. I was especially impressed with how the author got me to totally turn on Adrienne. At first, through Chiara’s eyes, she comes off like a complete trainwreck. But by the end I was absolutely rooting for her! And holy cow, those mom-fluencers are CRAZY.

Recommend? Sure!

[30] Leather & Lark (The Ruinous Love Trilogy #2) by Brynne Weaver
Fiction / Romance / New Adult, Part 2 in the series, audio

Synopsis: Contract killer Lachlan Kane wants out of the underworld, and indie pop star Lark Montague wants to convince her family that Lachlan isn’t behind their family’s murders, since Lachlan’s brother is married to her best friend. Her solution is a fake marriage and a contract deal that ends with him retired. Lachlan and Lark can’t stand each other, until sparks start flying and the line between fake and real begins to blur.

Review: This is a “dark romance,” and Lachlan and Lark are both killers and they’re being hunted. I was anxious the entire time I listened to it because I kept waiting for the killer to finally catch up with Lachlan and Lark. It was entertaining overall though. I enjoyed listening to Lachlan’s Irish accent, liked Lark’s sass, and believed in the connection between them. There were some annoying parts – like me not remembering the first book enough to get that these were two “new” characters until chapter 3 (that’s on me), and the cheesy laughing they did anytime it was mentioned a character laughed (gawd, make it stop), and having to listen to Lark sing her songs. So while I recommend it on audio (especially since they voice their characters for the entire book, not just their chapters), get ready for some cringe moments.

Recommend? Yes

Random Thoughts Thursday 495

  • Ha, life sure is lifing, y’all. I’m going to keep it easy breezy lemon squeezy in this post because if I go stream of consciousness it will become unhinged hella fast.
  • On that note, I saw this quote and thought, “ha, that is such a funny way to same ‘same ole shit,’ I am going to start using that!” Then the more I thought about it I realized my problem is actually each day is a completely different often disgusting soup I wasn’t expecting at all. So it doesn’t exactly work for me.
  • Our Europe trip was a year ago now. Craziness! Wish we could do it all again.
  • I read an amazing joke I need to share with you all. Q: What do you call a paper airplane that can’t fly? A: Stationery. Buah ha ha. Have I mentioned I love dad jokes?
  • I need my hair dyed so badly! GAH! I didn’t schedule it last time I was at the salon because I wasn’t sure if I’d need to save money (due to unemployment – I am still employed). Long story long I have an ENTIRE spa day tomorrow including my first facial!

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Reading Update (2025 #25-27)

[25] The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins
Self-Help / Personal Growth / Success, read for book club, hard copy

Synopsis: In The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins shares a powerful two-word mindset shift that helps you stop trying to control others and start living with more ease, clarity, and joy. Robbins explains how the “Let Them Theory” can improve your relationships, lower your stress, and help you focus on what really matters – “Let Me.”

Review: Okay, I have a lot of thoughts. First, I am not even going to touch the plagiarism discussion. If she stole this all from a poem, very NOT cool.

Alright, I have two main thoughts:

  1. Everyone needs to read some version of this theory (it doesn’t have to be this one). So many people waste time being agitated about the choices other make and what they do or don’t do. Personally, I have discovered so much peace, through therapy, in accepting people as they are. Reading this made me realize I need to apply that more broadly – meaning I have accepted some people but not all. I liked the advice “You have to decide whether or not you’re going to accept people as they are, or create distance that you need.” and also, “The most fulfilling friendships, the most beautiful love stories, and the most incredible bonds with family members are waiting for you if you learn to accept people for who they are and stop trying to force a relationship to be something it’s not” – but again maybe distance is what you need.
  2. This book is an easy read, but is bloated and repetitive. Hey, it gets the point across though!

Other thoughts (please note these are more “let them” than “let me” focused – the let me part is that you get to choose how you are going to react to everything and live your life):

  • I appreciated that the inspiration behind this was trying to quit racing through life and actually enjoy it, rather than getting so worked up about things that don’t matter that you can’t enjoy what little free time you have. Relatable.
  • I liked the reminder that control is an illusion – feeling in control makes us feel comfortable and safe – but we’re never really in control.
  • I liked the reminder that people are often doing the best they can with the resources and life experience they have and that they might be incapable of showing up in the way we deserve. There was a lot on people not having the tools to handle their emotions maturely.
  • I liked reading the science behind why people resist change – “human are wired to move toward what feels good right now, and to move away from what feels hard in the moment.” But I felt like the “influence” section on getting people to change felt hella manipulative. It was giving “I went on a diet hoping they would see it and be inspired to.
  • The section on adult friendships being so challenging was insightful. There was a lot of talk about “let them” in regards to not responding back to texts/email/etc. Ah, where was this advice when I needed it before the pandemic.
  • I will love quotes like this every time I read them “Isn’t that exciting, to live your life knowing that there are so many incredible people and connections and experiences, just waiting or you to be the one to go first and say hello?”

Recommend? Yes

Since we’re reading this book for book club, I made all these “let them” rocks to hand out

[26] Look Closer by David Ellis
Fiction / Thrillers / Psychological, rec from Ene, audio

Synopsis: When a socialite is found dead in a nearby mansion, suspicion falls on Chicago couple Simon, a law professor, and Vicky, a domestic violence advocate. With a tangled web of lies, a secret affair, and a massive trust fund in play, it becomes clear that one of them may be a killer – and the biggest question is who’s deceiving whom.

Review: Okay, wow. This took a couple of chapters to get into and understand what the heck was going on, but then I was hooked. This is super twisty and fun! The story kept getting crazier and crazier. I had a suspicion about what was going on, and I was right, but it turned out to be way more intense than I imagined.

Recommend? Yes

[27] First Time Caller (Heartstrings #1) by B.K. Borison
Fiction / Romance / Romantic Comedy, saw in BOTM ad, Kindle

Synopsis: When a young girl calls a romance radio show seeking love advice for her mom, the clip goes viral – launching host Aiden Valentine and single mom Lucie Stone into the spotlight. Suddenly, all of Baltimore is invested in Lucie’s love life, including the guarded host determined to play matchmaker on-air, even as he starts falling for her himself.

Review: As I was reading this, I was like “wait, didn’t I read something else from this author and not really care for it?” Yep, Lovelight Farms, which I called slow-moving and dull. Well guess what? This book is too. The chemistry wasn’t developed between the characters and their backstories weren’t explored as deeply as I would have liked. Lucie’s parents disown her at a young age and that is NOT a plot point (?!?!), and Aiden is guarded because of family stuff that is casually mentioned until it becomes more convenient to the story at the end. It’s a cute idea, but I wanted more. Also, negative points for being based off of Sleepless in Seattle, which is so creepy and stalkerish.

Recommend? No

Last day/last flight

Woo hoo, we made it to Saturday! Our last day in Iowa!

Steven woke up feeling a bit congested and I asked if he wanted to take any meds. He said no – he didn’t feel like spending the time researching what medications are allowed/disallowed by the FAA. Ahh yeah. Smart. Kind of forgot about that. (Some basic googling shows that MucinexD (pseudoephedrine & guaifenesin) is okay!)

I was confused about what time we were leaving and thought we were taking off at 9:00. That was NOT the case and we didn’t leave until after lunch. Yay for more time with family!

So we started the morning with donuts from Icon and chais from Starbucks.

Then we got to do something really fun – go to William’s first soccer game!

He had just started practice the week before, and I was impressed with the level the kids were playing at with just a bit of practice. It was fun to watch and made me miss playing soccer.

I was so grateful for our extra time together, and especially that we got to go to William’s game. I miss a lot of that stuff being in a different state, so it felt special to get to go.

After the game we picked up sandwiches for lunch, and ate at my snister’s and played a bit more of Over/Under, then we did some flight planning (including “packing” the VFR (visual flight rules) data again), and my snis dropped us off at the airport. We are so grateful for her shuttling us around so much on the duration of our visit!

Mom & Dad were there too, just not pictured

We went into the FBO (fixed-based operator) and confirmed they had fueled the plane, paid for the fuel, then I packed all our stuff in the plane while Steven did some of the preflight and plane inspection.

Then we went inside and did the final briefing – we always do this right before we fly so we have the most current information. Because it had warmed up so much (19C/66F) it was a bit windy – 18 knot steady, 25 knots gusty. But we had mostly clear skies to fly in, which meant we got to go up to 5500′. Yay!

We finished preflight, did run-up, and took off 3:33.

It’s pretty cool to see my hometown from 2000′!

As we were ascending, ATC (air traffic control) let us know that the Cessna 172S (exact same model as us!) that took off right before us was going on the same heading. What are the odds, right?

So we were basically buddies for their whole flight to Dubuque, about half our trip. On the screenshot below we are the blue plane and they are the lower marker with the -2, meaning they were 200 feet below us. You can’t tell but they were also 5 miles to our south. I kept trying to find them visually but couldn’t. But I felt them in spirit. And appreciated that they changed their course to be a little south of ours.

Note there was also someone -14 near us as well

We got to cross the Mississippi River in the daytime (much different than our flight in!) and I enjoyed seeing Dubuque from above!

The Iowa part of the flight was pretty chill, and the begining of Illinois was too. I should have asked Steven if I could fly a bit. Regerts. (Misspelled on purpose.)

Randomly though, there was traffic in the middle of nowhere Illinois that went right over as, at 1000′. What are the odds? This is the kind of stuff it’s good to have ForeFlight for. I don’t think we would have seen this guy above us until he was above us, which would have been frightening. Steven lowered our altitude a bit – you can see the difference in two images below – 5,335′ vs 5,084′. I wonder if the other pilot would have increased his altitude if we hadn’t descended.

After that we got closer to Rockford airport and some class Delta airports and then there was a lot of traffic. Lame, but understandable. Nothing that came that close to us again, thankfully!

And then as we started to get closer to the Chicagoland airspace the transponder lost wifi again. Wonderful. The image above shows what kind of traffic we were seeing when that happened.

No worries though, we have eyeballs. This used to stress me out (not having this data) but it doesn’t anymore. Steven did ALL his training without this information. We don’t actually need it, it’s just a “nice to have.”

And I was able to spot some planes with my eyes. Good work, Kim! (it’s harder than it seems during the day)

See the Pyramid House on the middle left?

Our home airport had a bit of traffic but we were first in line to land. There was a funny moment where ATC told the plane behind us they were clear to land and they were like “I think I am #2.” I had been confused why they were telling them! ATC corrected it quickly and told us we were clear to land.

We landed at 5:27 and taxied to our ramp.

Look how much shit we brought! (Okay, that Kohl bag is from my mom – but the rest was all us oops)

After we finished all the post-flight stuff and were walking to the car to unload our things before dropping off the book/keys, I said to Steven “I know we just got back but it looks like a really nice day for flying.” Ha. He was probably so worn out! He got 8.7 hours in on this entire trip!

But I do hope we fly again soon 😉

Meandering Minneapolis & flying back

On Friday we slept in a bit after staying out so late for the concert. I texted my dad “We’re starting to get up. Sorry we slept so late!” To which he responded, “I prefer my pilots well rested…lol.” Ha. Good point!

We weren’t in any hurry to get out of town (and were actually waiting for the clouds to break a bit before we flew back), so we had a leisurely morning.

We had breakfast at Hen House Eatery, which I randomly found while looking for a place with some vegan options. It turned out to be very popular, with a line out the door and a wait for a table! I wonder if it’s normally that busy or just after days that have events? We saw lots of people with AC/DC shirts on.

Kind of a horrible pic but it was so, so good!

After eating, I am guessing it’s like that normally – I got a vegan hash and it was delicious!

After breakfast we walked around a bit, checking out the Basilica of Saint Mary,

and the Minneapolis Sculpture Garden. I was pretty excited to get to see “Spoonbridge and Cherry”!

We got an Uber to Crystal Airport (MIC) just after 1:00. Then we did flight things a bit out of order since we needed to get fuel.

First, we went to the bathroom (priorities), then Steven preflighted the plane, then we drove over to fuel (which required talking to air traffic control (ATC) because of the kind of space we had to cross).

We haven’t fueled the plane very often on our own, and each airport has a little different system, but the instructions were pretty good on this one, and I dare say it was our most successful fueling experience so far. We put 11 gallons in each tank – a bit less than what they can hold – we still had to be mindful of the useful load of the plane!

After fueling we moved the plane out of the way and shut the engine off (since we get charged by how long the engine is running) to do a briefing for our flight. We downloaded the packet that included all the visual flight rules (VFR) information I might need in case the transponder dropped wifi again (it did).

Then we did run-up on one of the taxiways. After we did it and talked to ATC they informed us there is a run-up area right before you enter the runway. This is more a note for me and Steven – we usually see these areas after we do run-up, and need to figure out if they are indicated somehow on the airport diagrams, because we’ve looked and it’s not clear to us!

Anyway, ATC was just being helpful with that info and it reminded us we want to look it up (or ask the Chief Instructor at Skill about it).

A plane took off before us, then it was our turn (we left at 2:34). Oh! I didn’t mention, there was WAY more traffic than the previous day. There must have been 8-10 departures since we got there? The clouds were higher than the day before, you could see the sun, and lots of planes were out!

So that made things interesting. We had to contend with all the general aviation (GA) planes flying under the MSP Bravo airspace, and the commercial planes in the Bravo airspace (which felt like they were under the Bravo?! Or maybe commercial planes just appear that way when they are headed your direction from a few miles away.). If you look at the image below we are the blue plane on the left, and all the teal markers with numbers are planes in the sky. And this screenshot isn’t even of the busiest time!

So, we were happy to get out from under the Bravo airspace.

But then! As soon as we got out from under the Bravo we went right by two Delta airports which were also very busy, including a plane that kept turning toward us near our altitude. UGH. And did I mention that is when I lost wifi and all tracking on the iPad? Ha.

We were glad to get out of that area, too. Then it was just us and the beautiful blue sky and clouds.

We were telling Dad how the sun heats up the air between the clouds and creates thermals (connective currents of rising air) which moves the plane around a bit. The same happens over bodies of water.

All day I had been teasing Steven about flying between openings in the clouds, which you are allowed to do – you just need an opening to get back down if you are a VFR pilot (an Instrument Flight Rules (IFR) pilot could fly through the cloud).

So he saw an opening and went for it – with the plan to come right back down. It was fun to tilt the plane up and just see sky and get so close to the clouds (still a mile away horizontally as required). But we didn’t make it through the opening and up above the clouds, and just came back down. Maybe next time, Dad!

You can see on this chart when we did our climb – it’s where the green line hits the highest peak!
A little higher above the wind turbines than on the flight out there!

The rest of the flight was chill! As we got closer to Iowa, the clouds became less broken and more overcast. It was pretty moody around the Waterloo airport.

We landed at 4:11, and tied the plane down, and my snis was waiting for us with ice cream treats! She’s the best!

As soon as we got back to the house I immediately changed into joggers and a sweatshirt. I wanted to be cozy and warm. We got stuff to make crunchwraps for dinner, had those, then had a blast playing Over/Under. I never would have guessed that I’d be crying and laughing playing a game where as a group you have to come up with the answer to a question and the judge decides if you’re “over,” “under,” or “spot on,” but here we are! We now have a bunch of inside jokes from this game and I can’t wait to play it again. We also had fun playing Happy Salmon. It was a great night!

Random Thoughts Thursday 494

I decided to give you all a temporary reprieve from my trip recap! Don’t worry, there are still TWO more heavily flying focused posts coming!

  • I am excited I found a vegan chocolate bunny! And that it wasn’t broken – all the ones around it were. Sad face.
  • A few weeks ago I accidentally called the foyer of our house the “lobby.” So now we are jokingly calling it that.
  • What’s it called when you brain creates expectations for things you didn’t even realize it was creating until after the thing happens? It’s been happening to me so much lately. I purposefully try to go into things (events, interactions, life) without expectations, but then when it’s over I realize I had still imagined something. So weird.
  • Steven is such a good cat dad. Snow Jr was missing for 24 hours from Sunday to Monday night and Steven went all over in the woods looking for him. Of course, while he was doing that, Snow Jr came sauntering out of Dragonstone – which Steven had checked several times. Maybe Snow Jr just went in there while it was open and was somewhere else the whole time. What a stinker (Snow Jr, not Steven).
  • Steven was also very concerned when we were out of town this weekend and our next door neighbor told us Penny showed up there (she has to travel a bit through the woods – or on the street! – to get there). We asked the sitter to go get her if she wasn’t there by the time she came, but Penny had thankfully returned home.
  • Speaking of Penny. Sigh. This girl. She is still rushing into the garage when we show up and leave. Here is a view from my camera as I was pulling into the garage this week.
  • I really like this snippet from this article about how flying disconnects you from the world and makes you super focused on the task at hand:

I didn’t learn to fly so I could be alone with my thoughts, but I quickly discovered it was a nice side benefit. Flying forces you to leave your everyday worries on the ground and focus on the job of pilot in command, the way a good book or concert can make the outside world disappear temporarily.

Cognitive shuffling typically involves mentally conjuring up random, impersonal and non-emotionally charged words. For each letter of a word you pick at random, you think of as many corresponding words as you can for five to eight seconds each before moving to the next letter, Beaudoin said.

For the word “piano,” for example, you might think “Pear, parachute, Paul, pirouette … Item, intention, immature, igloo …” and so on.

While the technique may not sound calming, it “takes your mind off of your problems and your issues, and helps you get into a more relaxed state of mind,” said Dr. Fariha Abbasi-Feinberg, a sleep medicine physician and neurologist at the Millennium Physician Group in Fort Myers, Florida.

It didn’t work so well last night though, but I will keep trying it out

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AC/DC!

We saw AC/DC Thursday night in Minneapolis!

This was my Christmas gift to Dad. AC/DC is a band I’ve always wanted to see and I was stoked when I heard they’d be touring in the US.

I picked the first show of their tour, on Thursday April 10th, in Minneapolis for us. They were also going to be in Chicago in May but this timing made more sense.

The show was at the US Bank Stadium. The coworker I met with told me the acoustics aren’t great there and I totally saw (heard?) what he meant – it definitely wasn’t concert hall quality. Did that matter? Not too much!

We walked to the stadium from our hotel a little after 6:30 and got there around 7:00.

We were in the “F2” area of seating and we followed signs to enter through the “Polaris 360 Lounge” to get to our seats. A bunch of steps and two escalators later and we were in the lounge under our seats. I didn’t realize we’d have that lounge and it was a great perk – our own bathrooms and concessions.

Anyway, our seats were stellar!

The Pretty Reckless opened for AC/DC and I remembered I’ve downloaded a few of their songs. I couldn’t understand her singing or hear the music well but I loved her enthusiasm and all the f-bombs she dropped.

AC/DC stated around 8:30, with some cool graphics of a car driving to Minneapolis on the stage. We all got up and the energy was electric for the entire night.

Here’s the setlist (and pasted below). They played a lot of their hits, a few songs from their 2020 album, and some older stuff I wasn’t as familiar with.

I really enjoyed it all, but of course, was most excited for the hits I’ve heard hundreds (thousands?) of times. Hearing “Back in Black” live? Amazing. I also really enjoyed “Hells Bells,” “Highway to Hell,” Dirty Deeds,” “You Shook Me All Night Long, and “T.N.T.”

Despite “Thunderstruck” being one of my fave songs ever, I never love the versions I hear live (on recordings) as much as the studio recording. The crowd drowns out the guitar. And this performance seemed a bit slower than the studio recording. Let’s get to that.

Angus Young is 70.

Brian Johnson is 77.

That’s just… so insane and impressive. I mean, The Rolling Stones were also ancient when we saw them, but, geesh, it just blows my mid these guys are still rocking like this. At one point I saw Johnson bump into something and I thought he was kind of limping and I told my dad “this is why we had to go to the first concert – in case something happens to them!” Ha. I hope not. I hope they have a healthy tour.

This audience. They were so into it. At one point someone in front of me turns around and says “greatest fucking rock band ever!” The people behind me were dressed like Angus Young and kept yelling “Angus!” Someone somehow had the set list (how did they get it before?) and right before “You Shook Me All Night Long” came on he said “here’s the song all the white women have been waiting for!” It was amusing.

The walk out and back to the hotel (about a mile) was amusing too. Lots of rowdy behavior, lots of shouting. So much joy. I felt it too. I had a really great time and am so glad Dad and I got to go!

Setlist
If You Want Blood (You’ve Got It)
Back in Black
Demon Fire
Shot Down in Flames
Thunderstruck
Have a Drink on Me
Hells Bells
Shot in the Dark
Stiff Upper Lip
Highway to Hell
Shoot to Thrill
Sin City
Rock ‘n’ Roll Train
Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap
High Voltage
Riff Raff
You Shook Me All Night Long
Whole Lotta Rosie
Let There Be Rock (extended guitar solo)
Encore: T.N.T.
For Those About to Rock (We Salute You)

Flying to Minneapolis!

Woo hoo, we got to add another new state to our flying map – Minnesota! Very exciting!

But first, our Thursday morning. I went with my snis to school drop off – I had some painted rocks I wanted to give her kindergartner’s teacher. It was fun to hand them off and get to see the kids’ school!

Some of the teachers were loving on my snis and telling me how much they appreciate her. I loved hearing that! She’s really passionate about being involved with the school and PTA and I like seeing her hard efforts recognized. I’m so proud of her.

Then, there was a Starbucks stop, of course:

We had breakfast at the house, and afterward Steven told me and Dad that the weather looked good to fly. Up until then I thought we’d be driving – somewhat typical last minute weather-based pilot decisions! You really don’t know if you are going until you go most of the time. Which I have become accustomed to but makes me a bit difficult to plan around. Anyway, we went to pack – which only took a couple minutes!

I mentioned we had to pack light – we had to make sure we didn’t exceed the useful load (weight of humans, fuel, and luggage) of the plane. All I brought (besides what I was wearing) was a sweater, underwear, socks, PJs, deodorant, makeup, makeup wipes, my medicine, credit cards and ID, a phone charger, and my headset for the plane. AND OF COURSE A FEW SOFTLIPS. Oh! And a tiny painted rock. That was basically it. I didn’t even pack a water bottle (and was so thirsty!). We packed VERY light. Go us! It inspired me to pack lighter overall in the future, because I packed too much for this trip (granted, I only had a few minutes to pack and was just throwing things in a bag).

We loaded the plane, did flight planning, preflight, and run-up, and took off at 11:51. It looked great when we left Waterloo – still Visual Flight Rules (VFR).

It quickly became Marginal Visual Flight Rules (MVFR) though. Which is fine – you can still fly VFR in these conditions it’s just… marginal, meaning clouds are lower and/or there is less visibility. As long as you fly 1000′ above congested areas (and 500′ above non-congested areas) you’re good.

It’s fun to fly so low, because you see a lot more on the ground. But there are A LOT of wind turbines in Iowa and Minnesota.

And here’s the funny (???) thing – when we purchased the paper sectional charts for this trip we got Chicago and Twin Cities (see diagram below). Then when we put the charts out, we realized a section was missing along our route (red line). We figured we’d be fine – we’d have the sectional on our iPads.

Well, the iPads stopped working – they lost wireless access from the transponder. The sectional went out on it right when Steven was asking me how many more wind turbines there were, and where they were. Great.

So I pull out the two maps. And we’re in that area we DON’T HAVE.

Fantastic.

But! We were low enough to the ground that I had a strong cell signal on my phone, so I pulled up the sectional there and pointed out all the obstacles to him along the way. We were 500’+ above them all, but it’s good to know where they are!

So yeah, that was interesting. Lesson learned – buy all the sectional charts AND download the sectional chart to the iPad prior to departure (something we did for the flight back!).

Weather remained marginal the entire flight there. We didn’t encounter any other traffic, thankfully. With us being so close to the ground, there would not be much space to maneuver if needed.

It was neat to get a view of the city as we flew in! I feel bad that Steven misses this views but it’s more important that he, ya know, fly the plane. I show him the photos later.

We did a good job playing “find the airport”! When we landed (1:37 pm) we told tower we were going to the FBO (fixed-base operator). They told us they don’t have one. Ha, that explains why no one answered when we called them.

Dad was asking what those white and red lights are – they’re a PAPI – Precision Approach Path Indicator – a visual guidance system to let you know if you are on the right path. Two white and two red indicate you are! (red/red too low, white/white too high)

We had planned to leave the plane in a hangar and have them assist with fuel, but that’s okay! The weather didn’t look bad for the evening so we tied the plane down on a general aviation ramp.

Steven had planned out our flight well for fuel – we started with 34 gallons and used around 20 total and were down to 12-14. That was enough to make the “low fuel” light come on at the end of the flight! It was my first time seeing that! For VFR flying you are required (recommended?) to have 30 extra minutes of fuel for daylight and 45 minutes for nighttime. We still had well over an hour of fuel left.

After we were done at the airport I got an Uber to Stray Dog for a late lunch. One of Steven’s staff had told him about this bar that has a regular and vegan menu. It was all delish!

Then we walked the mile to our hotel. It felt good to walk and get some steps in after sitting for 2 hours in the plane. And since we packed so light it wasn’t a big deal to carry all our stuff!

We checked into our rooms then I met an old coworker (he got RIF’d in March – sorry, government talk – RIF is reduction in force – he was fired as part of mass firings) for a drink. I wasn’t sure what to order so I got the same as him – a gin & tonic. It was my first time having one and it was hella strong. I was feeling good! And had a great time chatting with him. Steven came down to meet my coworker and help me finish my drink.

Then I knocked on Dad’s hotel door at 6:30 and we walked to the concert! More to come!

Fun on the track

What a great surprise it was to have a full day in Iowa with my family on Wednesday! Our original plan was to fly in Wednesday afternoon, but we came in very late Tuesday instead to avoid weather and had a whole day to hang out.

We slept past 8:00 (!!!) then said goodbye to our nephews before they went to school. They didn’t know we were there, so it was a surprise to see us. My mom (their nanny) didn’t know we were in town either so it was a surprise for her as well. Even though the AC/DC concert was the next day, I hadn’t communicated with my dad about how we were getting there, because I had no idea. Even though we flew to Iowa, I didn’t know if we’d be able to fly to Minneapolis. We didn’t know when we went to bed Wednesday night either. It would be a weather-based decision we’d make the next morning.

I’m getting ahead of myself though.

When my snis got back from dropping the kids off we went to Reader’s Cup for coffees,

then we hung out at her house for a bit, then all got HuHot for lunch. We hung out after lunch, then went over to my older brother’s house to play on his dirt track.

They have a bunch of fun toys – go-karts, four-wheelers, dirt bikes, modified lawn mowers.

So I had to give them all a try!

Not the lawn mower though ha ha.

It was so much fun. And ended up being a beautiful day there! I’m really glad we got to do that.

We got pizza and hung out at my snister’s after. I was so happy I got to see all my siblings and most of our nephews and niece! It was nice to catch up.

We did a tiny bit of flight planning that night. Basically the weight and balance – with three people in the plane we were going to have to pack very, very light. Including light on fuel – that was why we didn’t have the FBO fuel the plane. More on that in the next post though!

A VERY late flight

Well that’s definitely the latest we’ve ever departed for a flight – 9:41 pm!

But Kim, isn’t your bedtime before 9:00 pm? Yes, yes it is. Flying is something I’ll stay out past my bedtime for, though!

Beloit, WI

So let’s back up. Last Thursday was the AC/DC concert in Minneapolis. Our plan was to fly to Waterloo, Iowa (near where my family lives) on Wednesday, fly to Minneapolis with Dad on Thursday, fly back to Waterloo on Friday, then back home on Saturday.

Best laid plans and all that. The weather wasn’t cooperating for a Wednesday departure – the clouds would be too low where we live, and snow and rain was predicted. And we didn’t want to do the entire flight on Thursday.

I went to work Tuesday thinking we’d be driving the next day. Womp womp. But then I got an early morning text from Steven saying “the weather looks great today. I am working on an alternate plan to leave tonight.” So I got excited and gave my snis a heads up we may arrive a day early but VERY late. The Steven told me someone else had the plane reserved so it likely wouldn’t work. Womp womp. So I told my snis that.

Then in the afternoon Steven told me he was going to talk to Chris, the Chief Instructor, about ideas for leaving that day, and before I knew it, the flight reservations were moved around and we were good to go! Thanks Chris! So I updated my snis again. Ha. My poor snis. I am mostly used to how unknown and unscheduled things are with flying, but it’s new for her and she was very patient and understanding with my lack of a schedule for the entire 5 days!

Crossing the Mississippi River in the dark

The problem with leaving Tuesday night is that I don’t get home from the office until 6:00 pm, and I had a nail appointment at 6:15. I asked Steven if he wanted me to cancel it and he said nah.

So I studied the flying route and airports on my train ride, went to my nail appointment, then went to the bank, then got us dinner. I arrived home at 7:55, packed and got the house ready for the cat sitter in 30 mins, and we were out the door at 9:00. I ate part of my burrito in the car. I was too jacked up and hyper to eat much though.

All that rush rush rushing is the opposite of the mindset we want to be in when flying. We don’t want to have “get-there-itis” – that’s when mistakes are made. We want to be calm, thorough, and in a mindset to make good decisions.

Waterloo, IA

So once we got to the airport I slowed it down and we went through our normal process. Things are a bit trickier in the dark – Steven has a special red light he uses to see things in the cockpit (there’s lights in the dashboard but they aren’t great). And there are other risks with flying at night, like not being able to see “safe” places to land (if an airport is not available) in the case of an emergency. But other than that it’s normal flying with one giant perk – LESS TRAFFIC! (And another perk is that it’s easier to find other planes because they have their marker lights on.)

Oh! And it was so late the tower was closed at our airport and the one in Waterloo. When that happens, pilots get on a common frequency and communicate there.

MA at our home airport

Steven uses a suction cup ipad mount on longer trips and it fell off his window as we were departing! He caught it and gave it to me, and when we were at our cruising altitude (6,500) I figured out how to get it to work and showed him, then I got to fly for a minute or two while he put it on his window. The whole point in mentioning that is so I can share I got to fly. Ha ha.

We didn’t encounter any other planes on our way out from our home airport in Waukegan (we usually do) and didn’t see any other traffic until we were near Rockford, IL – and that was just UPS and American Airline planes that weren’t close enough to be a factor we needed to worry about.

And we didn’t see any other traffic after that. I mean, it was past 10:00 & 11:00 pm for the majority of the flight. Why would many general aviation planes be out flying that late LOLOLOL.

Dunkerton, IA – I took this photo because my older brother’s house is in it

Something interesting (???) – this Cessna does not pull fuel evenly from the left and right tanks, so Steven manually switched back and forth from left and right rather than leaving it on “both.” So he was monitoring that closely, along with all the other gauges, like RPM, blah blah blah.

Landing in Waterloo, IA

But yeah, easy peasy flight (says the passenger). We landed at 11:46 and parked the plane on the ramp. No one else was there. Steven had called the fixed-based operator (FBO) earlier in the day to ask them to put the plane in a hangar (we were expecting some weather) in the morning and NOT to fuel it.

My snis picked us up (thank you snis!) and we got to her house past midnight and were asleep around 1:30 am. I mean, we had to finish the last episode of White Lotus!

My sleep has been so wack lately – I have to get up at 4:00 to go to the office and I’m not getting enough sleep. I’m glad I got to sleep in Wed-Sun!!! I needed it!

I was going to write about our Wednesday, but this ended up being really long… oops. So that will be another post!

Hi! I’m Kim, a 40-something-year-old living in northeastern Illinois with my husband Steven, and our cats, Khaleesi, Apollo, Starbuck, and Eddard aka Ned. My current main hobbies are running, painting rocks, flying, reading, and eating. I follow a vegan lifestyle and work in an account management role. I write about a variety of topics and consider this a “life” blog – a place I can share anything that’s on my mind. Please visit the “About” page to get a better idea of who I am! 🙂

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